My Story

I help men and women overcome the obstacles standing in the way of deep, sacred, and passionate love.

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My journey started at a young age — I was born with an unusual sensitivity to relationship, but lacked guidance to develop it fully until much later in life. I knew that listening to — and revering — women was somehow the key to my own fulfillment, and longed to experience the profound connection of true partnership.

 

Although I veered off course, at times listening to sources of information that were… let's say dubious, at best — I still understood that respecting and seeking to understand women was bringing me gifts I'd never known before.

 

I hungrily took to teachings from Daoism and Tantra two decades ago with the intention of becoming a better lover — learning to control ejaculation, experience multiple orgasms, and experience new forms of full-body orgasm and pleasure that most men don't experience.

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The key to my erotic transformation was a significant mindset shift around sexuality — away from goal-oriented, performance-driven forms of connection, which had soaked into every corner of my life. I soon learned that this mindset was the key to unlocking deep, authentic, and reverent intimacy that went well beyond sexuality.

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Goal-oriented relationship patterns were ruining intimacy for my partners and for me. Over and over again I went through the cycle of finding a crush — or something that felt deeper — and somehow never getting it to stick. Maybe it lasted a week. Sometimes a few months. Rarely, a year.

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I was always trying to get something. A result, a promise, a kiss, a compliment, some recognition or validation…

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Often, I blamed the women I was involved with when it didn't work. Sometimes I told myself it was a societal thing. But eventually, there was no denying that I was the common thread. The realization that my success in relationship was my responsibility changed everything.

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Releasing my need to get anything — turning toward giving instead — unlocked the door to nourishing, connective, and passionately charged intimacy with not just one, but several wonderful women within just a few short months.

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And when I thought it couldn't get any better, my partner Jasmine entered my life, and I knew I wanted only her.

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Together, we've embarked on a journey that is phenomenally beautiful, caring, nourishing, and deeper than anything I've ever known. Lovemaking gets better every single time, with multiple shared orgasms that are earth-shaking, cosmic, and often last for hours at a time. More importantly, I have a partner who truly understands me, has my back in every way I can imagine, and wants to explore every aspect of life together.

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Because we both want to grow together, we do. We support one another in individual endeavours, cultivating the personal sovereignty that is so vital to building the attractive charge for an enduring and passionate relationship.

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The best part?

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I get to keep learning and growing with Jasmine. We teach one another, hold space for one another, and continually evolve with one another.

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This is everybody's birthright, and it's my sincerest wish to see you flourish like us.