WELCOME
It's one of my greatest joys to support vibrant, intimate relationships.
I'm Chris. My work distill twenty years of facilitating transformative experiences — embodied movement, relationship building, and trauma-resolving methods — into a potent, living container that adapts to your needs. This work is different than therapy or counselling, although it can be similar at times. When you work with me, we track the roots of patterns playing out in your closest relationships and resolve them through a combination of body-based and talk modalities, and — crucially — with support between sessions via text or voice note.
If you're ready to follow your heart, I'm here to help — every step of the way.
TESTIMONIALS
Shares from some of my clients.
"My conversation with Chris felt so easy. The topic of intimacy can feel intimidating, but Chris shows up with gentle authenticity and guides you through self-reflection. His approach is warm and fluid, effortless. I struggle to allow myself to come from a place of transparency, and after talking with Chris I was able to see where my own gaps were in my quest for real intimacy."
— Karen
"A new man stands before me. A new version of me stands before him — with deep love, trust, respect, curiosity and integrity beating in my heart. I'm hopeful. I'm excited. I'm humbled. I'm grateful."
— D.E.
"Chris helped my partner and me unlock the true potential of our intimacy and sexual relationship — nothing shy of a miracle. We had amazing sex the other night, which felt like a breakthrough for both of us. So much pleasure. Game changer."
— Jeff
ABOUT ME
Challenge and Beauty
I've been blessed with an extraordinary variety and number of intimate relationships in my life. Some were brief. Some are still with me today. And through my relationship with my partner, Jasmine, we have learned to lean in, open up, and connect in ways we know are unusual for many couples.
I started Eros & Soul from a deep desire to see others experience the same depth, juice, security, growth, and yes — sometimes, challenge — that we have come to know in our relationship. I've come to understand that each of us is limited only by our imaginations, and there is something absolutely magical in what two people can create together.
And — it takes work. As Carl Jung stated, "No tree, it is said, can grow to heaven unless its roots reach down to hell". While I don't believe we need to experience hell to reach heaven, I do believe we need to dig our roots down deep into the fertile soil of our lives, relationships, and unconscious psyche to enjoy the fruits we want to cultivate.
Over the last two decades I've devoted myself to facilitating breakthroughs in how people relate with themselves and one another. Through yoga, massage therapy, dance and more, I learned how crucial healthy relationship is to my life working well. And when I say relationship here, I mean it in the broad sense — that I am in relationship with everybody and everything around me.
Rather than learning from textbooks and courses, I've learned through direct mentorship and lived experience to facilitate lasting change for the people I work with. In recent years, my partner Jasmine and I have integrated ceremony into our most tender moments, bringing deep healing, self-knowledge, and expansive connection. Through the same practices I teach my clients, we've released layers of shame, fear, and assumptions that kept us trapped and disconnected for years.
My approach is trauma-resolving, and through it I recognize that trauma needs kindness and presence to reveal itself and heal. This means bringing a balance of support and space, with positive results that span lifetimes and generations.
It's my belief that healthy relationship is an antidote to much of what has come to be characterized as mental health challenges. It's an antidote to the destructive practices that have characterized much of business, economics, politics, and religion. It's an antidote for broken families and communities, and even ecosystems.
And so the root of my work is teaching people how to find the win-win in their closest relationships. This lives beyond the stories we inherited from culture, from religion, from media, and often even from family. It's deceptively simple. Winning in love requires no manipulation, no games, no arguments.
I'd love to hear from you. Please drop a line if you'd like to chat with me.