PRIVATE COUPLES COACHING ROOTED IN TANTRA, SOMATIC WORK, AND DEEP HEALING.
Couples Coaching — Reconnect With Your Partner | Eros & Soul
EMBODIED • AUTHENTIC • TRANSFORMATIVE
You love each other.
But something's missing.
You're not in crisis — but you're not thriving either. The spark that used to be effortless now feels like work, or worse, like a memory. You've thought about whether this is just how it goes. It doesn't have to be.
If you've been stuck for a while with talk and good intentions, it's time to dig deeper.
WHAT OPENS UP
Looking forward to coming home to each other — not from obligation, but from excitement.
Touching your partner and feeling something — no performance, no routine. Just real desire.
Saying the hard thing without it turning into a fight — and growing closer by saying it.
Understanding why you keep ending up in the same frustrating places — and watching them finally lose their grip.
This goes further than talk therapy — instead of analyzing your relationship, we work with what's stuck in your body, your habits, and your nervous system. The patterns keeping you apart are older than this relationship. When we change the root, things shift dramatically.
THE JOURNEY
We start together.
A discovery call with both partners present. We talk about where you are, what's been going on, and whether this container is the right fit. No pressure, no sales pitch — just a straightforward conversation.
Then we work one-on-one.
Your first real session is a mapping session — one-on-one, where we look at what's really going on under the surface. What's driving the distance, the numbness, the frustration. This becomes the compass for everything that follows.
You guide the process.
From there, sessions are individual. Each one is guided by what's present for you — not a fixed program. I draw from a deep range of relational and body-based practices, choosing what serves the moment best. You don't need to have it figured out or know the right words. Your job is to show up.
Transform the source.
Most of what keeps couples stuck didn't start in the relationship. It started in childhood. Unmet needs from your earliest years play out as withdrawal, blame, lost desire, sexual shutdown, chronic tension, even your kids acting out. When you resolve these oldest patterns, trust and connection stop being something you force — they happen naturally.
Move it through your body.
This isn't just talk. The patterns that keep you stuck live in your nervous system as much as your mind. Through breath, embodied practices, and — in person — guided touch, we access what conversation alone can't reach. If you've been stuck in mental loops, you'll learn how breath and embodiment guide you home.
A better default emerges.
The first changes might come fast, or more slowly. They might be big or small. A look across the room with tenderness. And conversation that stays open without going sideways. A gentle touch that lands. And over time, trust rebuilds, desire returns by itself, and you get to experience your relationship the way you want it to be. You'll learn to do this work for yourselves, so the changes last long after we're done.
Plant allies — if and when you're ready.
For couples who are drawn to it, I can offer guidance on integrating cannabis and other plants into your relationship to soften defenses and open honest conversation. This is never a requirement, and never pushed on you — just availabile, if and when you're both ready.
We close together.
A final session with both partners to land the work, honor what's shifted, and look at what's ahead.
I'M CHRIS
I've learned that how you relate to yourself is reflected in how you relate to everyone else. And that most relationship problems aren't really about the relationship.
I work with couples who still care about each other but have lost the thread — the closeness, the ease, the feeling of being on the same team. What's keeping you stuck usually has nothing to do with your partner and everything to do with patterns that started long before you met.
I've spent over twenty years learning how to help people find their way back to connection — through the body, through breath, through honest presence. Not by giving advice, but by helping you access what's already there underneath the noise.
Available online worldwide, and in-person in Costa Rica and Western Canada.
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I work with couples of all kinds — all genders, all orientations, all relationship structures.
My work is trauma-responsive and growth-oriented.