Tantra for Couples
PRIVATE COUPLES COACHING ROOTED IN TANTRA, SOMATIC WORK, AND SACRED SEXUALITY.
EROTIC • SACRED • RELATIONAL
You're doing the work.
Now do it together.
You self-reflect, you meditate, and you know your emotions. Maybe you've sat with plant medicine or spent weeks in silence. You've grown enormously as individuals.
Your relationship is ready for the same.
WHAT OPENS UP
Strength and tenderness in the same touch. A partner who can hold you and open you with presence.
Sex that stretches into hours — so fulfilling that everything before it feels like a shadow.
Being fully seen by the person you've loved for years, knowing you can both share your deepest secrets.
Healing wounds you didn't know you carried — and watching entirely new dimensions of intimacy open up.
This goes beyond therapy — we work with the somatic, emotional, and erotic dimensions that build extraordinary relationship. You get results that last better than a weekend retreat, because you integrate the relationship you really want into your daily life. This is a sustained, guided journey through the layers most couples never access.
THE JOURNEY
We start together.
A discovery call with both partners present. We talk about where you are, what you're longing for, and whether this container is the right fit. No pressure, no pitch — just an honest conversation.
Then we work one-on-one.
Your first session is an individual mapping session — one-on-one, where we explore your inner landscape together. We look at what's most alive for you, what wants to open, and what's ready for attention. This becomes the compass for everything that follows.
You guide the process.
We journey into what's needed, either individually or as a couple. Each session is guided by what's present — not a fixed program — as we open the layers that shape how you connect, desire, and love. I draw from a deep range of somatic, relational, and energetic practices, choosing what serves the moment. Your job isn't to think about method. Your job is to show up.
Transform the source.
The way you love now was shaped long before this relationship. Your earliest experiences of closeness, safety, and desire created patterns you've been running ever since — most of them invisible. When you bring awareness to these patterns, something remarkable happens: intimacy stops being something performed or managed, and becomes something that flows — even erupts — naturally. You access parts of yourself and each other that were always there, waiting.
Move it through your body.
This isn't just talk. The patterns that limit your intimacy live in your nervous system as much as your mind. Through breath, somatic practice, and — in person — guided touch, we access what conversation alone can't reach. When your mind gets out of the way, your body knows exactly how to connect.
A better default emerges.
As layers open, new space emerges, naturally creating more wonderful, surprising, heartfelt and passionate moments. In time, these moments grow longer and more frequent, into a continuum of deeply rewarding, juicy, and pleasurable experiences — your new default. Many couples never access these dimensions of pleasure, but you will. And you'll learn to facilitate experiences like this for yourselves, opening immense new vistas of connection for the rest of your lives.
Plant allies — if and when you're ready.
For couples who are drawn to it, I offer guidance on integrating cannabis and other botanicals into your relationship in intentional ways that amplify connection and stir deeper desire. Always optional, always at your pace.
We close together.
A final session with both partners to land the work, honor the journey, and look at what's ahead.
I'M CHRIS
I've learned that how you relate to yourself is reflected in how you relate to everyone else. And that most relationship problems aren't really about the relationship.
I work with couples who've done some personal growth work already and are ready to go deeper into intimacy, desire, and erotic connection. You know there's something more — more fire, more tenderness, more of the alive, connected partnership you know is possible but haven't been able to access.
It’s only through connection — through relationship— that spiritual expansion, limitless pleasure, or “waking up” mean anything. It's only through connection that we discover all of the pleasure available to us, discover our purpose, and grow into who we're meant to become.
Available online worldwide, and in-person in Costa Rica and Western Canada.
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I work with couples of all kinds — all genders, all orientations, all relationship structures.
My work is trauma-responsive and growth-oriented.